The reason someone asking you why you aren’t in a relationship bothers you is because you think it is an indication that something is wrong with you. You think you are too weird, or too nerdy, or have too much baggage, or too whatever to be loved. And the real sting is if you are convinced that all that is your fault. Like if you just worked out twice a day and made more money and didn’t care quite so much about Doctor Who then you would totally be married to the perfect person by now.
That is of course ridiculous when it is said out loud. Everybody is attracted to a different body type, no amount of money makes up for a bad personality fit over the long haul, and there is no such thing as caring too much about Doctor Who.
